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  1. MadeMark
    October 28, 2011 @ 8:54 pm

    I personally wouldn't worry about it, and your friends can mind their own damn business. I was attracted to older men until I was in my thirties. I was never into younger men except as fantasy fucks (I always wondered what they smelled like, oddly enough). But once I hit my 40s I decided, consciously, to look for men my own age, specifically a partner my own age, give or take five years. Why? Because I want to grow old WITH someone, not ahead of them or behind them. Sexual attraction took a distant back seat to simply wanting to be in the same life phases together, to walk side by side, without one being much older or younger than the other. But I don't care what other people do. I'd just tell them to check their motives, and tell everyone who has a problem with it to fuck off. My husband is one year older than me, so I guess old habits die hard. 🙂